Overcoming Shame

Knowing How the Fairy Tale Ends

 I know what "falling in love" with a man feels like.  The feelings are real and powerful and it feels good.  It is seductive.  But I also know what is really going on.  Basically, I'm in love with a series of projections, a process in which a person attributes attributes of him or her self to other persons with whom they are in contact, and transferences, a process by which emotions and desires originally associated with one person, such as a parent or sibling, are unconsciously shifted to another person.  

Coming Out Of Lesbianism - my COOL story!

COOL stands for Coming Out Of Lesbianism.  I would like to share with you my COOL story.  First of all, Coming Out Of Lesbianism was the coolest choice I ever made.  Second of all, Coming Out Of Lesbianism was the smartest choice I ever made. Third of all, Coming Out Of Lesbianism was the healthiest choice I ever made.